Get the appChoose Paired if you want guided depth: a daily question, quizzes and expert-led journeys on topics like conflict and money. Choose Lovewick if you want themed question decks plus a big library of date ideas you can filter by time, cost and distance. If you'd rather stay close through the small moments between those talks and dates, Amourly is a third option for iPhone.
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Paired and Lovewick both help you learn about each other through questions. Paired goes further on guided expert content; Lovewick goes further on getting you out of the house.
| Feature | Paired | Lovewick | Amourly |
|---|---|---|---|
| Built around | Daily questions, quizzes and expert courses | Conversation decks and date ideas | Small daily moments: notes, taps, moods, photos, drawings |
| Daily questions | Yes — answers are revealed once you both reply | 1,000+ questions in themed decks (one a day free) | Not included — Amourly is built around everyday moments |
| Quizzes & games | Yes — quizzes and gamesEdge | Question decks | Not included |
| Expert courses & advice | Yes — courses written with relationship therapistsEdge | Therapist-endorsed question decks and research-based tips | Not included |
| Love notes & messages | Discussion threads on answers | Not a core feature | Love notes with text, a photo or a drawing; replies |
| Quick taps & nudges | Not a core feature | Not a core feature | 12 love taps (hug, kiss, poke, boop…) sent as a notification |
| Photo sharing | Not a core feature | Not a core feature | Snaps that land on your partner's Home Screen; 24-hour stories |
| iPhone widgets | Not a core feature | Not a core feature | 7 widgets for Home Screen & Lock Screen: notes, mood, photo, drawing, days together, next special day |
| Shared memories | Not a core feature | Memory timeline | Shared journal of memories with photos, date and place |
| Anniversaries & countdowns | Important-date tracking | Anniversary and date-night countdowns | Special days with reminders and a days-together counter |
| Platforms | iPhone, Android | iPhone, Android | iPhone |
| Free version | One daily question | One question a day plus date ideas | Free: 7 journal entries, 7 love notes, 3 taps a day, 1 story a day, core widgets |
| Premium price (US) | From $14.99/month; annual plans listed $39.99–$79.99 | $9.99/month, $14.99/quarter or $29.99/yearEdge | $9.99/month or $44.99/year |
| One subscription for both partners? | Yes — one partner pays, both get Premium | Not clearly stated | Yes — one Pro plan covers both partners |
Paired leans further into guided depth. Its daily question unlocks your partner's answer once you've both replied, and Premium adds expert-led journeys and topics from household finances to love languages.
Lovewick has more than 1,000 questions across six themed decks, from intimacy to money, which you can answer in person, on a video call or by typing.
Lovewick. It lists more than 750 date and intimacy ideas you can filter by time, cost or long distance, and you can save favorites to shared wishlists. Date ideas aren't something Paired highlights on the App Store.
Lovewick Plus is listed at $9.99/month, $14.99/quarter or $29.99/year. Paired Premium is listed from $14.99/month, with annual plans from $39.99 to $79.99. Paired says one subscription covers both partners; Lovewick doesn't clearly say.
Both rate well. Paired holds 4.7 stars from more than 209,000 US App Store ratings; Lovewick holds 4.8 from about 1,900. Paired reviewers mention a thin free tier and questions that repeat over time. Lovewick reviewers were unhappy when free daily questions were cut to one a day, and it updates less often.
Amourly doesn't ask you questions or plan your dates. It's for the time in between: a note before their long meeting, a hug tap on the way home, your mood on their Lock Screen. When you do go out, save the evening in a shared journal with photos and the place, and watch your map fill in.
Save a memory with photos, the date and where it happened. You both add to the same journal, so your story fills in from two sides.
Explore the couples journalWrite a few lines between meetings, add a photo or a quick drawing, and it's waiting in their Lovebox. They can reply when they have a minute.
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All three are free to download. Paired's free tier gives you one daily question; Lovewick's gives you one question a day plus its date ideas. Amourly's free version includes notes, taps, moods, photos and core widgets with daily limits.
Paired and Amourly both cover your partner with one subscription. Prices are US App Store list prices, checked on the date shown, and can vary by region and promotion.
Paired is one of the best-known couples apps. Founded in London in 2019, it is built around a daily question that both partners answer before seeing each other's reply, plus quizzes, games and courses written with relationship therapists.
Lovewick, founded in 2020, offers more than 1,000 questions across themed decks and a library of 750+ date ideas you can filter by cost, time and distance. It also keeps a memory timeline, wishlists and countdowns.
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Read the comparison →Quick, honest answers about Paired vs Lovewick.
Paired suits couples who want expert-led daily questions, quizzes and courses. Lovewick suits couples who want conversation decks and a big library of date ideas.
Yes, on list price. Lovewick Plus is listed at $9.99/month or $29.99/year. Paired Premium is listed from $14.99/month, with annual plans from $39.99 to $79.99.
Yes. Lovewick says you can use it alone, and your partner can answer questions without being paired on the app. Paired and Amourly are built around two linked partners.
Yes, both are on iPhone and Android. Amourly is currently iPhone-only.
Yes. Amourly is built around small everyday moments like love notes, taps, moods, photos and drawings, rather than questions or date planning.
We compared each app's public App Store listing, official website, help pages, and published pricing, and read recent public reviews for recurring themes. Feature lists change often, so we re-check these pages regularly. Last checked .
Disclosure: this comparison is written by the team that makes Amourly. We've aimed to describe every app fairly, including where another app is the better fit. If something here is out of date, email support@amourly.app and we'll correct it.
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