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Amourly vs Agapé

Amourly vs Agapé: one question, or everything in between?

Agapé sends one thoughtful, research-backed question each day for you both to answer. Amourly doesn't ask questions. It's where the rest of the day goes, like a note before a meeting, a tap from the train, your mood or a photo on your partner's widget, plus a shared journal of the memories you want to keep.

Last checked · Written by the Amourly team

Amourly love taps for sending a hug or kiss to a partner
Love taps · a hug in one tap
The short answer

Reflection, or connection on the go?

Agapé asks you to pause and answer. Amourly asks almost nothing; it just makes reaching each other easy.

Choose Agapé if…

  • You want one thoughtful question a day.
  • You value research behind the prompts.
  • You'd also use it with friends or family.
  • You want iPad, Mac or Android support.

Choose Amourly if…

  • You want to connect during the day, not only through answers.
  • You want widgets with your partner's notes, mood and photos.
  • You want a journal and map of your memories.
  • You want simple pricing where one plan covers you both.
Side by side

Amourly vs Agapé, feature by feature.

Features and prices as listed on each app's App Store page and website, checked October 15, 2026. Prices are US list prices and can vary by country or promotion.
FeatureAmourlyAgapé
Built aroundSmall daily moments: notes, taps, moods, photos, drawingsOne research-backed daily question
Made forCouples only — a private space for twoPartners, friends and family
Daily questionsNot included — Amourly is built around everyday momentsYes — personalized, revealed when you both answerEdge
Expert courses & adviceNot includedPrompts developed with a university researcherEdge
Love notes & messagesLove notes with text, a photo or a drawing; repliesEdgeNot a core feature
Quick taps & nudges12 love taps (hug, kiss, poke, boop…) sent as a notificationEdgeNot a core feature
Mood sharing42 moods plus custom moods (Pro), shown on widgetsEdgeNot a core feature
Photo sharingSnaps that land on your partner's Home Screen; 24-hour storiesEdgeNot a core feature
iPhone widgets7 widgets for Home Screen & Lock Screen: notes, mood, photo, drawing, days together, next special dayEdgeNot a core feature
Shared memoriesShared journal of memories with photos, date and placeMemories with comments
Anniversaries & countdownsSpecial days with reminders and a days-together counterEdgeNot a core feature
PlatformsiPhoneiPhone, iPad, Mac, AndroidEdge
Free versionFree: 7 journal entries, 7 love notes, 3 taps a day, 1 story a day, core widgetsLarge free question pool
Premium price (US)$9.99/month or $44.99/yearFrom $9.99/month; annual $19.99–$99.99; lifetime $199.99
One subscription for both partners?Yes — one Pro plan covers both partnersEdgeNot clearly stated
What actually differs

Where Amourly and Agapé really differ.

What's the difference between Agapé and Amourly?

Agapé is built around one daily question, revealed when you've both answered, with prompts developed alongside a University of Rochester relationship researcher. Amourly has no questions. It's built around the small, unplanned gestures between partners and a shared record of your memories.

Which is better for busy couples?

Both are light. Agapé asks for a minute or two to answer a question. Amourly asks for even less, since a tap or a mood takes a second, and it doesn't need you both to show up at the same time.

How do their prices compare?

Agapé lists Premium from $9.99/month, annual plans from $19.99 to $99.99 and a $199.99 lifetime option. Amourly Pro is $9.99/month or $44.99/year, and one subscription covers both partners.

Inside Amourly

What it looks like on your iPhone.

01 / Love taps

Sometimes a hug is the whole message.

Send a hug, a kiss, a poke or a boop in one tap. Your partner gets a notification, and it's a small, honest way to say you're on their mind.

One-tap love taps like hug and kiss in the Amourly couples app
02 / Widgets

Their note, on your Home Screen.

Add Amourly widgets to see your partner's latest note, mood, photo or drawing without opening anything. It feels less like checking an app and more like a glance at them.

Explore couple widgets
Amourly couple widgets on an iPhone Home Screen showing a love note and photo
03 / Shared journal

Keep the days you want to remember.

Save a memory with photos, the date and where it happened. You both add to the same journal, so your story fills in from two sides.

Explore the couples journal
Dated photo memories in the Amourly shared couples journal
Pricing

What each app costs.

Agapé is free to download with a large pool of free questions. Premium is listed from $9.99/month, with annual plans between $19.99 and $99.99 and a lifetime option at $199.99.

Amourly is free to start. Amourly Pro is $9.99/month or $44.99/year and covers both partners.

Amourly
Free to start. Amourly Pro is $9.99/month or $44.99/year. One Pro subscription unlocks Pro for both partners.
Agapé
Premium is listed from $9.99/month, with annual plans from $19.99 to $99.99 and a $199.99 lifetime option. Agapé doesn't clearly state whether one subscription covers both partners.
About Agapé

What is Agapé?

Agapé sends one personalized question a day, revealed once both people answer. Its prompts were developed and pilot-tested with a University of Rochester psychology professor, and it works for partners, friends and family.

Made by
Agape Wellness Inc. (Rochester, NY; Y Combinator S21)
Platforms
iPhone, iPad, Mac (Apple silicon), Android
Focus
One personalized daily question, developed with a University of Rochester relationship researcher.
Rating
4.8 from 26K+ US App Store ratings (checked October 15, 2026)
Best for
Couples (and friends or family) who want one thoughtful question a day with research behind it.
What people like
Research pedigree and a generous free pool of questions. Simple, low-effort daily ritual.
Common complaints
Some long-time users find questions start to feel repetitive. Premium plans are among the pricier in the category.
Website
getdailyagape.com
Common questions

Questions couples ask before choosing.

Quick, honest answers about Amourly vs Agapé.

Is Amourly an alternative to Agapé?

It's a different approach. Agapé is about one daily question; Amourly is about small everyday gestures like notes, taps, moods and photos. Some couples use both.

Does Amourly have daily questions?

No. Amourly doesn't include daily questions or quizzes.

Is Agapé free?

Yes, Agapé has a large free question pool. Premium is listed from $9.99/month on the US App Store.

Can Agapé be used with friends?

Yes, Agapé works for partners, friends and family. Amourly is made only for couples.

Does one Amourly subscription cover both partners?

Yes. When one partner subscribes to Amourly Pro, both partners get Pro. Pro is $9.99/month or $44.99/year on the US App Store.

Is Amourly available on Android?

Not yet. Amourly is currently available for iPhone only. Agapé is available on iPhone, iPad, Mac and Android.

How we compared

Sources and method.

We compared each app's public App Store listing, official website, help pages, and published pricing, and read recent public reviews for recurring themes. Feature lists change often, so we re-check these pages regularly. Last checked .

  1. Agapé on the US App Store
  2. Agapé official website
  3. University of Rochester: Can a relationship app improve romance?
  4. Amourly - Couples App on the App Store

Disclosure: this comparison is written by the team that makes Amourly. We've aimed to describe every app fairly, including where another app is the better fit. If something here is out of date, email support@amourly.app and we'll correct it.

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The question can wait. The hug can't.

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