Get the appCupla is a shared calendar for couples. It syncs both partners' calendars and handles date requests, to-dos and grocery lists. Amourly isn't a planner. It's for the small moments between plans (notes, taps, moods, photos and drawings), plus special-day reminders and a shared journal of what you did together.
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Cupla makes the schedule easier. Amourly makes the time around it feel shared. Many couples need one more than the other.
| Feature | Amourly | Cupla |
|---|---|---|
| Built around | Small daily moments: notes, taps, moods, photos, drawings | Shared calendar and planning |
| Shared calendar | No — special days and countdowns instead | Yes — two-way sync with Apple, Google and OutlookEdge |
| Shared notes & lists | Notes with checklists, private or shared | To-dos, groceries and wishlistsEdge |
| Date ideas | Not in the app (free date night generator on amourly.app) | Date requests and date-night goalsEdge |
| Love notes & messages | Love notes with text, a photo or a drawing; repliesEdge | Not a core feature |
| Quick taps & nudges | 12 love taps (hug, kiss, poke, boop…) sent as a notificationEdge | Not a core feature |
| Mood sharing | 42 moods plus custom moods (Pro), shown on widgetsEdge | Not a core feature |
| Photo sharing | Snaps that land on your partner's Home Screen; 24-hour storiesEdge | Not a core feature |
| iPhone widgets | 7 widgets for Home Screen & Lock Screen: notes, mood, photo, drawing, days together, next special day | Yes |
| Shared memories | Shared journal of memories with photos, date and place | Memories feed |
| Memory map | Map of your memories with cities and countries visitedEdge | Not a core feature |
| Anniversaries & countdowns | Special days with reminders and a days-together counter | Key dates and countdowns |
| Platforms | iPhone | iPhone, Android, web (beta)Edge |
| Free version | Free: 7 journal entries, 7 love notes, 3 taps a day, 1 story a day, core widgets | Limited calendar window |
| Premium price (US) | $9.99/month or $44.99/year | From $4.99/month; yearly $34.99–$59.99 |
| One subscription for both partners? | Yes — one Pro plan covers both partnersEdge | Not clearly stated |
No. Cupla syncs your work and personal calendars side by side, which is genuinely useful when schedules are tight. Amourly doesn't manage your schedule. It keeps your special days with reminders and counts down to them, and spends the rest of its energy on everyday closeness.
If the hard part is finding time to call across time zones, Cupla helps. If the hard part is feeling part of each other's day, Amourly helps, with notes, taps, moods and photos that wait for your partner whenever they're awake.
Cupla Premium starts around $4.99/month, with yearly plans listed from $34.99 to $59.99. Amourly Pro is $9.99/month or $44.99/year and covers both partners.
Save anniversaries, birthdays and trips. Amourly reminds you before they arrive and keeps count of your days together.
Anniversary remindersWrite a few lines between meetings, add a photo or a quick drawing, and it's waiting in their Lovebox. They can reply when they have a minute.
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Save a memory with photos, the date and where it happened. You both add to the same journal, so your story fills in from two sides.
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Cupla is free to download, with a free tier that limits how far ahead your shared calendar shows. Premium starts around $4.99/month, with yearly plans listed from $34.99 to $59.99.
Amourly is free to start. Amourly Pro is $9.99/month or $44.99/year and covers both partners.
Cupla is a couples calendar from New Zealand. It syncs both partners' Apple, Google and Outlook calendars side by side and adds date requests, to-dos, grocery lists, wishlists, key dates and countdowns.
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No. Amourly keeps special days and reminders, but it doesn't sync calendars or manage events. Cupla is built for that.
Yes. Cupla handles the plans; Amourly handles the small moments in between and the memories afterward.
Yes. Save anniversaries, birthdays and other special days, and Amourly reminds you before they arrive.
It's free to download with a limited calendar window. Premium starts around $4.99/month.
Yes. When one partner subscribes to Amourly Pro, both partners get Pro. Pro is $9.99/month or $44.99/year on the US App Store.
Not yet. Amourly is currently available for iPhone only. Cupla is available on iPhone, Android and the web (beta).
We compared each app's public App Store listing, official website, help pages, and published pricing, and read recent public reviews for recurring themes. Feature lists change often, so we re-check these pages regularly. Last checked .
Disclosure: this comparison is written by the team that makes Amourly. We've aimed to describe every app fairly, including where another app is the better fit. If something here is out of date, email support@amourly.app and we'll correct it.
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